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AITA for being annoyed because my girlfriend pees so much?

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and living together for about two months. Honestly, I love her dearly and love the time we spend together, but the amount of times she has to inconvenience us by going to the bathroom has gotten extremely annoying. I feel bad for being annoyed by this, but hear me out.

We can’t go on drive any longer than 2 hours without her needing to stop. When we’re out shopping, at least once we always have to stop what we’re doing to find a bathroom, which can sometimes take up a lot of time. At dinner, I always have to wait after we pay so she can go. At night, she’ll get up while I’m sleeping etc etc. I know she can’t help it, and she’s only 20 and is perfectly healthy, but it’s seriously gotten on my nerves a ton.

I always have to pause a movie we’re watching or something she’ll even pause foreplay so she can go. I don’t know if she actually has to use the bathroom or is just doing it to annoy me at this point.

Am I actually the asshole for being annoyed by always being inconvenienced like this? I don’t want to mention it to her that it’s annoying me if I am the asshole here.

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Commander in Cheeks [137]25.9k points · 8 days ago

YTA. What would you like her to do??

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Depends....

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On what other options there are.

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Partassipant [2]1.6k points · 8 days ago

No he mean depends as in the adult underwear.

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1.9k points · 8 days ago

He actually replied to himself, lol.

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Asshole Aficionado [10]605 points · 8 days ago
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153 points · 8 days ago

You are the best kind of redditor.

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lol he replied to himself.

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Take my upvote you geniuses

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Asshole Aficionado [19]46 points · 8 days ago

...dad?

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2.4k points · 8 days ago

YTA. Exactly like??? And it’s not even an unreasonable amount of time either, 2 hours then a break doesn’t sound crazy to me. If it were every 30 minutes maybe I could understand where he’s coming from, otherwise it just sounds like OP is incredibly impatient.

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Partassipant [2]2.1k points · 8 days ago

Girls get UTIs really really easily if we hold in our pee too long, or at least that's what every single health professional has told me when the topic comes up. Once every 2-3 hours is totally normal. OP is overreacting and I've had to explain the same thing to a few of my exes. I'm not going to risk a UTI just because you feel "inconvenienced" having to stop for maybe a minute or two.

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1.3k points · 8 days ago · edited 7 days ago

Also the stuff about foreplay, wtf? My SO pees before and after sex all the time, as do I. Just wash your junk and hop back in the sack, I'd rather restart a cold engine than have sex with a full bladder. Can only imagine it'd be more uncomfortable for women, too.

Edit: thanks for the pee!

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Can confirm, sex on a full bladder is super uncomfortable for women. Not to mention, any position that stimulates the front wall of the vagina (especially g-spot stimulation) is going to make you feel like you’re about to piss yourself.

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