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My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and living together for about two months. Honestly, I love her dearly and love the time we spend together, but the amount of times she has to inconvenience us by going to the bathroom has gotten extremely annoying. I feel bad for being annoyed by this, but hear me out.

We can’t go on drive any longer than 2 hours without her needing to stop. When we’re out shopping, at least once we always have to stop what we’re doing to find a bathroom, which can sometimes take up a lot of time. At dinner, I always have to wait after we pay so she can go. At night, she’ll get up while I’m sleeping etc etc. I know she can’t help it, and she’s only 20 and is perfectly healthy, but it’s seriously gotten on my nerves a ton.

I always have to pause a movie we’re watching or something she’ll even pause foreplay so she can go. I don’t know if she actually has to use the bathroom or is just doing it to annoy me at this point.

Am I actually the asshole for being annoyed by always being inconvenienced like this? I don’t want to mention it to her that it’s annoying me if I am the asshole here.


SHP, right?

You can't really be trying to blame her for the size of her bladder, can you?

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Original Poster-1360 points · 8 days ago

Not SHP and not trying to blame her for the size of her bladder, just the inconveniencing part

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